I seem to spend most of my life wishing I had something more than I have. Wishing I had done something else, tried new things, been to different places etc. etc.
The title of the blog quite aptly expresses this sentiment. It is a play on the phrase “coulda, shoulda”…”I could have done this, I should have done that…”. As such, I spend most of my days living in regret rather than enjoying what I do have.
The shudder comes from the sudden realisation that at some point, I will need to STOP wishing and either start bloody doing or value what I have - that and the fact that couldashoulda.wordpress.com was already taken!! A convenient tale you might say, but actually a very apt one none the less.
So, in short, I hope that by divulging my inner-most thoughts and engaging with readers, that I will be able to accept who I am, what I am and what I have got.
I hope also, that along the way, you too, may benefit from some of these ramblings.
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